Going it Alone
I’m not sure why, but hiking alone is so satisfying. Maybe it’s the shedding of insecurities. I don’t have to worry if my hiking partner is comfortable, if I chose a trail too steep or too easy or not scenic enough. I don’t have to feel insecure about my slow pace and frequent stops for water and photos. Or maybe it’s the feeling of independence that is so appealing, proving to myself that I can accomplish something completely on my own.
I haven’t always felt this way. When I first started hiking I would get nervous if my husband was far enough ahead of me to be just out of sight. I was easily distracted by noises and scared of snow or slide crossings. Then one beautiful sunny day in June I decided to leave work early and go for a hike on my own. I was really itching to get out in the mountains. My husband travels a lot for work and I just decided that I didn’t want to wait for him to go on a hike anymore. So I hiked on my own to Heather Lake, a trail that I had already been on twice before and was nearby and short. I felt confident and free as I climbed the switchbacks, but as I hit the early summer lingering snow I was hesitant. There were many footsteps as this is a very popular trail so I mustered up my courage and continued in the post-holed boot tracks of others. I made it to the lake and basked in the sunshine. I thought to myself, huh, this is pretty nice. Since then I’ve hiked hundreds of miles on my own or with my dog. I find that it fills me up when I feel emptied by the monotony of daily life.
Going Alone edited by Susan Fox Rogers
This compilation of stories from inspiring women is sure to motivate anyone to try a solo journey. These women climb Half Dome, sail with sharks, hike the PCT, embark on a long distance backpack in Alaska with only a dog and bike solo in France fueled by adrenaline and thrills. They share their motivations and struggles on the way to becoming true adventurers.
Read more about my solo hiking adventures on the Outdoor Women’s Alliance website:
The Case for Females Hiking Solo
Hikes Featured in this Post (some trails I’ve enjoyed solo):
Ptarmigan Ridge, North Cascades, WA
Heather Lake, North Cascades, WA
Maple Pass, North Cascades, WA
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You might enjoy a poem by Washington’s poet laureate, Elizabeth Austen, called “The Girl Who Goes Alone.” It’s in her book Every Dress a Decision. The closest I’ve come to backpacking alone was taking my eleven-year-old daughter on a three-day, two-night hike on the Pacific Crest Trail. I remember one moment when I realized I was in charge here, I was the adult, and if there was any danger–from wild animals–in this case, I had to be the protector, even more importantly the decision-maker. Turned out fine–I didn’t get up and build a fire to stave off whatever was howling–and we hiked out in good form the next day. That trip made an impression on both of us.
Thank you for sharing your story, Judy. I haven’t mustered up the courage to go on a solo backpack trip yet, I’m sure taking young children is even scarier as you have so much more to worry about than yourself! I will definitely check out Elizabeth Austen’s poem, it does sound like something I would enjoy. Thanks for the recommendation!
Great post! I think I’ve only ever solo hiked once, but I didn’t have an awesome experience. I had my dog (then puppy) with me, and it was one of the hottest summer days here in Florida – full sun, 90% humidity, 95 degrees, and we were hiking through oak scrub and sugar sand. I was okay, but my puppy was not having it. Halfway in my poor puppy just laid down in a spec of shade in the sand and refused to go on! So, I had to carry my 4 month old golden retriever the rest of the way! It’s funny now looking back, but at the time I was pretty miserable! Haha! Maybe it’s time to give solo hiking another chance.
Hi Steph, I had a very similar experience with my dog when she was a 6 mo old puppy. It was a hot day (minus the humidity, thankfully!) we were climbing up a steep exposed trail and she just gave up and laid down in a tiny patch of shade. I took a long break to let her rest and still ending up carrying her a bit. She needed some encouragement back then but now that she is older she pulls me up the trail when I’m tired and hot!
I encourage you to try solo hiking again. I don’t think it’s for everyone, but if you really want to do it, you should just go for it. Be safe and always let someone know where you are going (we’ve all seen the movie 127 Hours, right?). I always send an email letting someone know where I’m heading and when I expect to return, then I don’t feel like I’m bothering them and I don’t have to worry about them remembering. Let me know if you give it another try!